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How to Deal with “Separation” from Your Twin Flame

It’s no secret – “separating” from your Twin Flame is extremely painful. You can spend days and weeks in your bed crying.

The heartbreak you feel from a Twin Flame “separation” is nothing you’ve ever felt before. That’s why there’s so much out there about Twin Flame separation sickness, pain, and depression. It can be easy to try to find the solution for how to deal with Twin Flame separation online. 

But the thing is – separation doesn’t actually happen with Twin Flames. Separation is an illusion created by the physical world. The many articles around Twin Flame separation stages and symptoms are based on our desire for answers, not the reality of Twin Flame “separation”.

If you’ve done any kind of research on Twin Flames, you’ve likely come across a lot of misinformation. A lot of it perpetuates the notion that you need to go through certain Twin Flame separation stages of your journey and that you have to endure Twin Flame separation pain before being reunited.

I’m here to tell you that Twin Flame separation is just an illusion – it’s not real. Read on to learn more about why everything you know about Twin Flame separation is false and the truth behind your perceived Twin Flame separation symptoms.

What is a Twin Flame

To understand why Twin Flame separation stages are a myth, it’s important to fully grasp what a Twin Flame is.

You are a soul; you are not your physical body. Your Twin Flame is a soul, not their physical body. I’m a soul; I’m not my physical body. No one on this earth or planet is their physical body; everyone is a soul.

Your soul is the exact same soul as your Twin Flame’s, therefore you are your Twin Flame and your Twin Flame is you. This is different from a soulmate, since you can have more than one soulmate throughout your life.

You are the exact frequency, the exact energy of vibration, and you share that with no one and nothing else in the entire history of the cosmos except for your Twin Flame. 

Think about that for a minute and appreciate how beautiful that is. It can be overwhelming! That’s why many people believe that Twin Flame separation depression exists and can be extremely upsetting.

The Truth About Twin Flame Separation

Let’s cut to the chase – Twin Flame separation isn’t possible because your soul can’t be separated.

Because you are the same soul, and the soul is energy, it cannot be ripped up or torn apart. You can’t separate yourself from the essence of your being because you are energy. You are the same frequency of energy throughout time, space, dimensions, and eternity.

Therefore, you can’t separate from your Twin Flame. Believe me, I and many of my students have tried.

When I was in the depths of my despair, after six months of being on the floor, I contacted someone who said they could cut the cord between anyone I have spiritual connections or soulful ties with. I just wanted this pain to be done with and reclaim my life with the help of Twin Flame separation.

I went to this person who had been very successful at this. She’d been doing it for decades, but with me, she couldn’t do it. She just couldn’t understand what was going on. Now, this was seven years ago, and I don’t think she even knew what a Twin Flame was at that point.

She didn’t know what was going on and was unable to cut the cord. Many of my students have had similar experiences attempting Twin Flame separation, though they may not have realized it at the time.

Are you tired of the pain and suffering? It’s possible to magnetize your Twin Flame and attract everything you desire. 

Twin Flame “Separation” Stories

With so much misinformation on Twin Flames online, it’s not surprising that many individuals mistake their emotions and despair for Twin Flame separation. They may feel lost and start searching for answers about how long a Twin Flame separation lasts or how many times Twin Flames separate.

However, seeking answers to a problem that doesn’t exist doesn’t help anyone move forward on their journey.

Recently, my student Marcy joined my program after feeling devastated due to “separating” from her Twin Flame. We understood what she was saying when she said, “The person I went to for help couldn’t cut the cord. I just can’t get away from this – these ties I feel to my Twin Flame.”

We told her, “It’s because your Twin Flame isn’t another person. You’re not a separate being, you’re the same being. There’s no Twin Flame ‘separation’.” That’s why we have separation in quotation marks.

If you can resonate with that idea, that truth, your Twin Flame journey will be so much easier. You’ll be able to advance along this journey towards everything that you truly desire.

Then Why Do I Feel So Sad?

I understand what you’re thinking.

You’re thinking, “Well, if we’re not separate and separation doesn’t really occur, then why am I sitting here heartbroken when my Twin Flame is off living his/her life as if nothing has happened?” or “My Twin Flame has me blocked on all social media platforms and won’t return my calls.” or “My Twin Flame comes in and out of my life as they please.  Whenever they leave they’re separating themselves from me, right?”

If you look at it from a physical viewpoint, it certainly appears that Twin Flame separation pain is real, but what we sense with our five senses doesn’t show us what’s really going on.

The Twin Flame journey is the very first step of spiritual ascension – that’s why we incarnate into the physical world to begin with. The first step is about learning to truly know and love your true self, which is your soul. And as we know, your Twin Flame is your soul.

If you are able to resonate with that and shift your focus from what your Twin Flame is physically doing, saying, thinking, or feeling to yourself and what’s happening at the soul level, you will begin to magnetize everything that you truly desire, including being with your Twin Flame physically.

Magnetize Your Twin Flame

Everything you desire will come after you do the work on the spiritual level. Everything, even before this journey, in your physical world is a reflection of how you’re resonating with yourself on your spiritual level and how aligned you are with your true self, your soul.

That’s what this journey does – you shift closer into alignment with your soul, and therefore, with your Twin Flame.

Work with Elle to advance on your Twin Flame journey with a renewed sense of self and clarity. Contact us to get the support you need to advance along your Twin Flame journey. Learn more about Twin Flames by listening to our podcast or browsing our collection of books & teachings.

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